Monday, June 23, 2008

Families in the Philippines

Families are forever. Families are strengthened through learning about eternity together. All people are sons and daughters of a loving Heavenly Father. Enjoy getting to know each of these families, even if it is to be grateful for your family and what you already have.


Family name is Obedencio. He is Marlon, a Jeepney driver, been inactive but did come to church this week after we committed him to with a loaf of bread. Her name is Edelyne and is the Gospel Essentials teacher. The son's name is Edel, 4. They said the bread was lami (pronounced la (like far), me (like eve), lami) Also said lapok kaayo, meaning literally muddy very, or very muddy as we would speak, as the bread was delivered while the typhoon was near.


Family name is Dinglasa. Mother's name is Rosa. Her two children are the younger two, Jose, 9, and Rose Marie, 7. The young girl is a non member friend named AnnAnn, 17, who came to church Sunday with Rosa. Rosa's husband recently died, we do not know how, but she has not been out to church since then, until Sunday. She was very happy to be back and so was the branch happy to see her. AnnAnn is now being taught about the church.


Family name is Antipuesto. Father name is Anescio he is inactive and unordained. Mother is Wilma and comes to church occasionally. Daughter in red is Stilla,18, and daughter in pink is Joana, 17. Sons are Renaldo, 20, in dragon t-shirt, Nelmar, 15, in white t-shirt, and Dennis, 9, in grey shirt. The lady in yellow is a neighbor who is also an inactive member whose name is Daisyrey Mesina. Daisyrey helped us find the Antipuesto home as we could not remember for sure where it was. We could remember which big tree to park by, but other than that we were lost and it was dark out as well. Plus, lapok kaayo because of the typhoon and the bread was still warm. The other girl in the back is a friend of Reynaldo who we believe lives here as well. None of the males are ordained with priesthood and Dennis is not baptised. The whole family committed to come to church, but only Stilla came. She was so excited to be there, as were her friends to see her. She has a special relationship already with Sister Parsons, like they are kindred spirits.


Family name is Cavile. Father's name is Herminigildo. We forgot to make a note of what he actually goes by. We spent a week trying to memorize names, only to find nobody goes by their given names, but each has a nick name. This brother and his children have been in the church since, December, 2006. Brother Cavile is the 2nd councilor in the Branch Presidency. He seemed to be unaware that the next step for him is to obtain a temple recommend, but now is working on that as a goal. Did not see wife, he said, "she is too shy", is not a member of church at present. Daughter is Nicca,12, who gave a very special talk on Father's Day about her father. Son is Jon Loy, 4. He is a very active boy. The first Sunday he "ran" sacrament meeting, and wrestled with Edel Obedencio during the Primary Father's Day song. During home visit, Sister Parsons offered that JonJon could sit with us during Sacrament Meeting. JonJon sought her out on Sunday with excitement and he sat and looked at the picture of Samuel the Lamanite, counting the arrows. He drew his own "five fingers" and made a face on each one.


Family name is Galvez. The grandma ("Lola" in Cebuano) is Amor. We have not officially visited this family so no further names are known by us. We have hired her to make curtains for our apartment. She is a very active lady in the church as are her adult children.


Family name is Pabayos. Mother's name is Evangaline. Son's name is Louwe. We visited her and immediately recognized Louwe from church. She is a regular at church and is married to a non member.


Family name is Bacang. His name is Luciano and has been a member for 9 months only. He is ordained as a priest. He has two sons whom we did not meet who are 14 and 13. The sons are not ordained. His wife left him several years ago. He is a farmer and had a wonderful crop of white kernal sweet corn which is behind Sister Parsons as she took the picture, so if you look behind her you can see it. He is irregular in his church attendance and was not at church this week (hopefully) because of the typhoon. We are re-visiting him later today. Here is a picture of the path to his house.


Also passed a chicken (manok) house/pig (baboy) farm. We think that people live in the house on bamboo stilts above the farm. It all smelled quite unique (really bad). We did not linger to look! There were also what Elder Parsons thought were bats flying all around through the trees.


Family name is Licerio. Father's name is Gener. His business is bug control. The sign on the highway says Pestman. He is a returned missionary who labored in Manila where he met his wife to be, Thezz. They have been married about 20 years. He is the 1st councilor in the Branch Presidency. She is the YW President also Primary Secretary. They have two sons. The one in the picture is Dallen, 19, (It was his birthday on the day of this picture. We joined them for Family Home Evening). He is the Branch Mission Leader. He is studying Resort Management and loves to cook and is preparing for a mission, probably in a year or two. The other son is GeneGene, 17, enrolled in the Military Academy. (By the way, high school is completed in the Philippines at age 16, then students enter the University at age 17.) MelMel, 15, is the oldest daughter and Dianne, 5, named after Princess Di, is the other daughter.

The preceding pictures are members of the Sibulon Branch, our 1st branch to work with. On Sunday afternoon, we traveled to scope out the Bacong Branch, our 2nd assigned branch. We found several members still at the church in the midst of "AREA ATTACK" activity. They were together in a group doing what we had been doing the whole week before. This was a very exciting discovery.


Family name is Abarido. Father's name is Nemuel. He is the Elder's Quorum President in the branch. He has recently returned from inactivity to the church. His wife, Barbara, is not a member. She says she will join in two years. (?!) She works for an American advertising company filing documents. The two daughters are named Adelstein, 5, and Sheen, 2.


These are neighbors of Nemuel, from preceding picture. The lady on the left is Francisca Argonista, a member, who is visiting her sister, name Maria, and her sister's son, Mario. Maria and Mario are non members. That is all we know. It was a quick visit and trying to beat the rain. Also needed to get back home as the power was extinguished on the whole of Negros Oriental following the typhoon; they called it a Brown Out. All church meetings were held without any power; i.e. no microphones, no air conditioning, no fans, but no lack of spirit!! With no power, there is also no street lights to illuminate the many pedestrians and bicycles in the street for the return drive. The drive normally takes about 30 minutes from Bacong to our apartment, about 20 Km.


This is the rest of the Argonista family which is also a neighbor of Nemuel. The father is Junior. Son's names are Fernando, 19+, and Jerad, 12.

Now we are asking you each to share our mission with us. As you looked at these wonderful people, I am sure one or two tugged at your heartstrings. Consider that person as you pray and we know that Heavenly Father will guide us to fulfill what that person needs while we are here in Dumaguete District. This district is made up of 9 branches. The aim of the District and Mission Presidency is to make a stake here soon. To make that happen there needs to be 5 wards with a minimum of 20 full-tithe paying, temple recommend holding, Melchizedek Priesthood holders. 3 of the branches already meet this requirement. So Melchizedek Priesthood activation is one assignment we have. Specifically, we are assigned to these two branches which are nearest to attainment.

Also, the Asian Area has pinpointed a major concern that 50% of the church youth here, ages 16 to 30, go inactive. Remember high school is over at 16 here, and that is where we believe they are being lost. So Young Single Adult follow up is another priority assignment that we have on our mission.

We love you all and feel your prayers,

Elder and Sister Parsons

Friday, June 20, 2008

Love is Blind Keep Distance

A Bumper Sticker on a Tricycle (taxi cab) in Dumaguete is what inspired the Title to this post! This is a motorcycle with a side car welded on. It not only carries passengers but all kinds of cargo, even our table was transported 6 kilometers atop a tricycle.

This is a tricycle, but not a true picture for best meaning. Will add better pictures in a later post.

For now though, let me back track to the flight to the Philippines then bring you to the present as time permits.

We left SLC on Saturday night at 9:30 PM and flew to LAX. After a three hour layover in LA we boarded a plane for Taipei, Tiawan. We found the airport in Tiawan to be very clean, so any of you planning on coming to the Olympics in China will probably also experience Taipei.
Could someone please direct me to the CR? (CR is the name used for rest rooms in the Philippines, it means Comfort Room)

Eva Airlines was what we flew from LA all the way to Manila in the Philippines. It was a very comfortable way to fly. Each seat had its own movie screen in the back of the seat in front with a wide array of movies, TV shows, and music to choose from. It is a good thing, as the first flight was 13 hours and 50 minutes long. Even though the seats were wider than a normal airplane seat both Lisa and I found it impossible to sleep. Lisa watched 4 movies, I played Zuma and watched 2 movies.


Also found these rooms at the Taipei airport. There were 3 seperate rooms to choose from, I am only including one picture. The other two were Muslim and Christian.
This was an interesting sign which was also at the Taipei airport. If you went to the side and looked out the window, it appeared that the door opened into thin air about 3 stories above the railroad track below, which gave us a chuckle. Then again after 24 hours without sleep what didn't give us a little chuckle.
From Manila airport,

our final leg to Cebu City was on Philippine Airlines. After 34 hours of travel, 19 of which was in the air we were greeted by Elder Ehorn and Elder Colina the Assistents to President Anderson who transported us to the mission home for a meal and a horizontal bed, aaaahhhhh, nighty nighty.
This picture was actually after one of our two ferry rides on our way to Dumaguete where they also picked us up. They had driven our car down from Cebu to Dumaguete, but to illustrate I add their picture here.

This is all I am putting in tonight, will add more another time got to keep a missionary schedule after all.

Love to all, and unlike the title, I wish you could all be here, there is no need to keep your distance, you know!!

Elder and Sister Parsons

P.S. Oh, there is so much more to write and show!

Thursday, June 5, 2008

MTC and Counting

Lisa and I made it to Provo.


The room at the Rodeo Inn was like living with Donald Trump as compared to our room here at the MTC, but then we will only be here for two more days.


We definitely see why Sterling and Eric loved the MTC. The food is quite good. I do believe they have alternate objectives though in feeding us so well, because the first day the mission president said that Senior Couples are worth their weight in gold. I do believe I have added a few pounds and at over $900 @ounce thats a lot of kwarta! (Cebuano for money) or was that kwarto, news at 10,


and if there were not enough Elders and Sisters here already 400 more arrived on Wednesday.



They had suitcases lined up three different ways from this sidewalk intersection.

Lisa also finds a new favorite picture on the wall every day. One day this one was the one she needed a picture. It is pretty special, I think too.

There are pictures up and down all the halls, and one day Lisa asked one of the administration here how often they changed the pictures, because she keeps finding new ones. Well, the administrator said he thought they changed them about 5 years ago. We got a laugh out of that.

We start classes every day at 8 AM. Go pretty solid until noon, then have an hour and a half for lunch, then back to class at 1:30 PM until 5 PM. At 6 PM Lisa and I have a two hour language class, needless to say, between eating, learning and sleeping we have not let any moss grow between our toes here.

Still excited and still looking forward to all that is ahead.

One quote from my journal, then off to bed:

"To observe and be part of this wave of missionaries is uplifting, to say the least. What power to behold! I saw God’s Army today and I heard them sing, “We are as the army of Helaman, we have been taught in our youth, and we are NOW the Lord’s missionaries, to bring the world his truth,” was hard to take. The lump in my throat was so large that I could not sing but could only cry like a baby. I felt God today!"

Good night now,

Love ya all,

Dee and Lisa



Friday, May 16, 2008

Mom's Day and Sterling's Graduation

Sterling and Valarie invited Lisa down to celebrate Mother's Day last Sunday and I tagged along, besides I just had to take a few pictures of Shelby.


Then today was graduation day for Sterling and his sister, Shannon, which meant another trip to Ft. Collins to visit and eat off the BBQ grill. Although, the steaks we had on Mother's Day were certainly better tasting than the hambergers and hot dogs we ate today.

This first picture is of Cashlynn and Kellee. Cashlynn has decided that dancing is all that makes her happy while she is awake. (Of course, eating is the other thing that makes her happy, but Kellee wouldn't let me take a picture of that.)

Next, a few pictures of Valarie and a lot more of Shelby.

She was wearing her cheerleader outfit to cheer on her Daddy!

Also got to practice a few of her cheerleader moves with her Uncle Tyler, Shannon's husband.

Oh, and there were two graduates at the party as well, so Heeeeerrrrrrreeeesssss --- Sterling

What is this thing anyway? The modern engineer doesn't use these, Do they?

and HEEEEERRRRRREEEESSSSSS --- Shannon

Those two are not nearly as cute as the granddaughters and Grandma Lisa, at least to me.


Then again, "there is still food on the table. We better do something about that," Cale said.

Friday, May 2, 2008

The Official Graduation on Parade Grounds

The Parade Grounds were surrounded by many aircraft which we walked by on the way to the bleachers.
Squadron A & B lined up on the far side of the grounds. We were informed through an impressive historical lesson about how discipline was started in the armed forces in the USA during the Revolutionary War at Valley Forge by a Prussian General who was given charge of 120 soldiers which he trained and they were dispersed throughout the ranks to instill discipline everywhere, and shortly thereafter the Revolutionary Soldiers won the war, and now you know the rest of the Story.
The national anthem was played and I shot this picture across the Parade Grounds of the Color Guard.
The training flights then marched in formation in front of the stands which held dignataries and parents and friends. We were able to pick out Rudy and got this shot at, I mean of, him.

Our seats in the bleachers were exactly (or sakto in Cebauano) in the center between the two exits, and they announced that all should exit using the stairs only, we parents then needed to show our discipline. We were some of the last parents to be able to go to our "airman" and release him from formation while he waited patiently for us to arrive.

Airman Rudy then took us on a tour of his dormatory. He was the "latrine princess" of the flight as his mother had done such a wonderful job of teaching him the rules of "sparkling" a mirror. By the way, his MTI's first called him Minnie Mouse, but by the end they were actually calling him Mighty Mouse. He did well.


I bet these Brazilian flip flops are the first to graduate Boot Camp.

We went to the enlisted club for lunch and finally at 14:00 were allowed to take our airman off base. We went to The Alamo. There was actually an IMAX theatre on site and before going into the Alamo we watched the Reed Smoot IMAX history of the Alamo. Very informative and historically accurate, we were told.


After our day in the Alamo, Rudy had signed us up to go to a minor league baseball game. The airmen who signed up to go to the game were allowed to stay at the ballpark with their families until the end of the ballgame which started at 19:05, instead of being required to report to their barracks at 19:30. We enjoyed his stories and a fair ballgame at the same time.

We did leave in the 8th inning as the Missions (home team) were down 13-7 to the Rough Riders. Rudy also realized that it was dark out and he had left his flashlight in his foot locker. One of the rules he has to live by is no walking on base after dark without a flashlight. This made him nervous until he found that 99.4% of the airmen at the game also had forgotten their flashlights.

When we got him to the parking lot where we could drop him off we waited until another airman showed up to march with to their dormatory. We watched them march off as long as we could. By the time they got to the street at least two other airmen had joined them, also without flashlights.

Well that is all for tonight. We anticipate many more adventures tomorrow.

Love to all,

Dee & Lisa

Thursday, May 1, 2008

More Graduation Photos

Two interesting signs from Lackland Air Force Base.




The arrival of the trainees for the Coin Ceremony and Retreat.


Rudy's Military Training Instructor (MTI) awarding Rudy his coin which he now must carry with him as long as he is enlisted. It denotes the progression of the trainee into an airman meaning Rudy is no longer a trainee, but officially an airman. He gained the first strip on his uniform. While the MTI's were passing out the coins the load speakers were belting out a very touching version of "God Bless America".

Rudy was glad we got a candid shot of his MTI since if we had asked for a picture with him Rudy would immediately be asked to drop and give him 20 pushups.

Following the Coin Ceremony the new airmen were asked to recite the airman's creed and to sing the Air Force theme song, "Up and away to the wide blue yonder......", then the flag was lowered in the Retreat Ceremony to be guarded until the next morning when it would be flown again on graduation day. That flag will then be retired in comemoration of this graduating class. The national anthem was also played.
The newest airman of the Air Force!! Hip, Hip, Horray!!


Rudy qualified for a special coin, and ribbon, as well, since he graduated with honors, in the top 10% of the trainees. He will now wear 4 ribbons. One for honor graduate, one for expert marksman with a M-16, one for airman, and another we don't remember.

After leaving Rudy to report to his dorm by 19:30 as Dee was driving back to the motel, Lisa and Ashlee were reading the tourist books and came on an ad for "Nine Lives Bookstore". We HAD to go and check it out. Rescued cats are housed in the bookstore until they are adopted by customers. It was actually very clean and all the employees were definately cat people.


We will add more tomorrow.

Good night.

Rudy's Graduation from Air Force Basic Training










First up was the Airman's Run. The wait was made to pass quicker as we harrassed the trainees who were patrolling to keep "family and friends" out of the restricted zones.
The first to pass was the honor flights, by the way the one on the blue collar is not Rudy!

This was a 2.5 mile jog and each flight was singing as they ran by. You ask what they were singing? It was called jubees, made popular by black soldiers in WWII.
The 2.5 mile jog allowed the flights to run by us going both ways. Another by the way, Rudy is in both of these pictures.
We will see what the afternoon brings.
Dee & Lisa